Children are pretty amazing. They are resilient, literal, bright eyed and curious. They are also easily victimized. Too often, they are victimized without the adults in their world really even being aware of it.
A few nights ago, my husband and I were watching TV after a long day. I was tired, and just wanted to be entertained for a few minutes while awaiting bedtime. Out of the blue he clapped his hands, once, very loudly. In the quiet room, it sounded like a shot going off and I reacted much
